Showing posts with label preplanning arrangements for funeral. Show all posts
Showing posts with label preplanning arrangements for funeral. Show all posts

Thursday, April 4, 2013


Dying Without a Will in Canada
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Written by The Editors
  

When someone dies without a will, or a will cannot be located, or is located but is deemed invalid, the person is said to have died intestate. Provincial laws deal with this situation, as each province has a potential interest in the deceased person's estate.

The assets owned by the deceased at time of death are known as that person's estate. Any debts the person owed need to be paid out of the estate, and anything remaining (the "residue" of the estate) can be divided among the heirs of the deceased person. Note that taxes are a debt.

So far, this is the same as what happens when someone dies with a valid will. The difference is, when you die with a valid will, distribution is usually done by the person you appointed as your executor, according to the wishes you expressed in your will.


Administration

When a person dies intestate, family members may apply to the courts to act as the estate administrator (sometimes know as the estate trustee). If the court provides a certificate of appointment, the administrator must identify and settle all debts in the estate. If anything remains, the administrator must then determine how to divide the residue and must try to locate and obtain the agreement to the division from legal heirs (the usual order or priority is: spouse, children, parents, brothers and sisters, and more distant family such as nieces and nephews).

If no member of the immediate family of the deceased is willing to act as administrator, or none is able to take on the task, then the court may appoint a trust company to undertake the task.


Problems

If the assets of he deceased person have some value, the risk of conflicts among potential heirs is high. In the absence of a will, the individual acting as the administrator of the estate is likely to be confronted with emotional claims ("I was always her favorite", or "He promised me I would get ...") and there is a strong possibility that cooperation in the process will not happen.


Solution

Write your will! We all like to think we will live a long time, and many of us have a superstitious fear of preparing a will. Reality, however, dictates that accidents and sudden, fatal illness will take some people much sooner than anyone would have predicted.

Once you start acquiring assets of value — a home, a pension plan, investments, and similar — you should prepare your first will. Review your will once a year after you write it (a good time is when you are doing your annual tax return and thinking about your assets), and update it as needed.

A small effort on your part may save your family a lot of unnecessary pain and conflict.



Monday, January 14, 2013

Planning A Funeral Sendoff is Not Just for Older People



Planning A Funeral Sendoff
is Not Just for Older People

by M-Gillies

No one talks about their imminent death.
 
Death is that taboo
most people tuck under the rug
and pretend isn’t there.
 
Death is shunned.
 
 Death is he-who-shall-not-be-named!!
 
Death well it happens,
whether you want it to or not...
One day we all end up taking the dirt nap, kicking the bucket, or fertilizing the lawn as we take a one-way ticket to our afterlife. Death, unlike most things in life, is not picky – it does not discriminate between who lives and who dies. There is no age cap on death, so why should we feel the need to wait until we are older before pre-planning our own sendoffs?
At the age of 17, Alex Lewis was diagnosed with bone cancer. Not wanting to live his life based on his illness, within the span of three years, Lewis accomplished a lifetime’s worth of achievements – travelling the world, sky-diving, meeting and marrying the love of his life.
Despite knowing that any day could be his last, Lewis spoke openly and non-nonchalantly of his desire to be cremated and for his ashes to be scattered across Craven Cottage  (a football stadium in London, England). He wanted his family to remember him for who he was and for the accomplishments he had achieved. Shortly before his death at 22, he told his family that regardless of his debilitating disease, he had lived a full-life.
While Lewis knew his time was short, many people take for granted that planning ahead and informing family members of final wishes, is beneficial in the grieving process. Daily, stories of men and women in the prime of their lives are subject to unforeseeable accidents, or suffer sudden illnesses which cut their lives short. Hindsight is only 20/20 after all. But what if you wanted to be buried, what if you wanted to be cremated or have your ashes scattered across a sentimental park? Who would know if you haven’t told anyone?
Often people assume that this is covered in the will, but few know that a will is only an inventory list of the assets of your estate. There are no legal documents that stipulate how one’s body is to be disposed of or whether a particular song or prayer be recited. Often times, this is a decision chosen by family members when a funeral director presents them with these options. But those personal touches, favorite music, memorabilia and particular clothing are making their way into the funeral industry’s ever-evolving market place.
People want something memorable, something emotionally lifting, something personal, and whether you are 18 or 78. Despite being healthy, fit, or safety conscious, pre-planning your own sendoff is an opportunity to share with your family a way of personalizing a ceremony dedicated to the life you lived.